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The Extraordinary Death Of Eddie Dinkowitz
“A former member of our community has died. He had no family, so there will be no shivah. If anyone wishes to attend the burial, please see me after the meeting.”
I heard this from my rabbi during a board meeting at our synagogue. It made me sad, and I felt worse when I learned more about the deceased.
Could Dementia Be An Extended Near-Death Experience?
It’s been a year and a half since I first shared that my mom has dementia. At the time, I found comfort in in the words of two rabbis, one ancient and one modern. I learned to stop looking for what was missing in Mom, and started seeing the person before me…
A Jewish Journal Cover Story: The Accidental Talmudist
My voyage through the sea of Talmud began with a miracle and ended in transformation. I joined 90,000 Jews at MetLife Stadium to celebrate the completion of the 7 1/2 year cycle.
I Sobbed For A Stranger
The Jewish world is not one of half measures. The highs are Mt. Everest high – like dancing the hora at a wedding – and the lows are Death Valley low.
As a hopeless romantic and generally joyful Jew, I tend to race toward those highs. I know darkness exists. I don’t hide from it. I just try to counteract it with light.
I Couldn’t Meet My Soulmate Until I Met My Soul
A New Year’s Eve love story that almost wasn’t.
My Mom Has Dementia, And Other Good News
I needed to find meaning in my mother’s condition. I found two rabbis who comforted me, one from the Talmud, and one from Ohio.
My Beliefs About God In 100 Words
My rabbi challenged me to write my theology in 100 words. This is both harder and easier than it sounds. I highly recommend the effort.
Can You Spot The Latino?
My teacher called “Salvador Litvak” on the first day of class, and I told her I go by “Alex.” No one batted an eye, but deep down I felt like a coward.
A Miracle So Obvious The Skeptics Looked Silly
One of the tragedies of my misspent youth is that I missed years of meaningful connection with the wisdom of my tribe because I thought I was “spiritual” and Judaism was not. Lacking that ancient connection, I sought spirituality in meditation, rowing, martial arts, and the Grateful Dead.